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How to Deal with difficult people? Have scriptures?
Author: admin | Category: dealing with difficult peopleA co-worker made me so angry yesterday, I cut off 90% of my business duties with her, and wanted to leave my job for a minute—even though she’s not in my office.
Please give me TIPS, BOOKS, WEBSITES to help me deal with difficult people?
Christian self-help books, scriptures, and tips are helpful too!
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August 24th, 2010 at 4:37 am
I am going through something like this myself right now. I do a lot of praying and talking with God. I pray for her. All of our battles are won in prayer.Through prayer and faith all things are won. I put on the armor of God. Ephesians 6:10-18
There is a lot to type out here so I’ll let you look it up for yourself but what it says is that you will be dressed in Gods armor and you will be fully protected from all the fiery darts of Satan and his hosts.
Take olive oil and with your finger that has been dipped in the olive oil say these words as you make the sign of a cross on all doors and window sills. "This is a house of the Lord and evil has no place here!" Then take your finger and rub the door knob and say "I I plead the blood of the Lamb." The Lamb is Jesus Christ.
The difficult person will not know a thing but you will know, and you will have peace in knowing that God has you covered.
As far as a self help book the Holy Bible is your best defense. Jesus is the best counselor. Trust in him.
August 24th, 2010 at 4:37 am
Try falling back on these:
Ephesians 1:13-14 “And you also were included in Christ when you heard the word of truth, the gospel of your salvation. Having believed, you were marked in him with a seal, the promised Holy Spirit, who is a deposit guaranteeing our inheritance until the redemption of those who are God’s possession—to the praise of his glory.”
2 Corinthians 1:21-22 “Now it is God who makes both us and you stand firm in Christ. He anointed us, set his seal of ownership on us, and put his Spirit in our hearts as a deposit, guaranteeing what is to come.”
Remember……this life is not permanent……it’s all temporary…..but heaven is forever. So when someone like this upsets you to the brink…….think of your eternal inheritance
August 24th, 2010 at 4:37 am
wear a WWJD bracelet and when you get angry look at it and think "what would jesus do"
August 24th, 2010 at 4:37 am
It would depend on what kind of difficult. There are many options, depending on the problem. One approach is- "does the boss know you are being paid to harass me and make my job more difficult, and or less thorough/professional"
August 24th, 2010 at 4:37 am
just pray for them. Cant be upset with someone your praying for every day for god to bless. He will turn it around
August 24th, 2010 at 4:37 am
I think a lot of Bibles have those topical guides, where you can look up a word and it will give you scriptures to read relating or using that word. I would suggest looking up enemies, or enemy in the topical guide. Even though your co-worker might not be your "enemy", I think a lot of things scriptural about enemies could help your situation of dealing with a difficult person. You could also look up neigbor, there are a lot of scriptures about how to deal with and treat your neighbor as well, referring to others around you really. Hope some of this helps.
August 24th, 2010 at 4:37 am
It is your choice to get angry or not. Don’t blame someone else because you are angry even though they may be in the wrong. Take a better look at yourself and try to figure out why you are getting so upset. We can act or react. That is your choice and the fault of no one else.
August 24th, 2010 at 4:37 am
Toxic coworkers how to deal with them. the book is at your local library.
August 24th, 2010 at 4:37 am
Prayer and love. Then, look up love of others in the catechism.
God bless.
August 24th, 2010 at 4:37 am
Psalm 4:4 helps my son: "BE agitated, but do not sin.
Have YOUR say in YOUR heart, upon YOUR bed, and keep silent."
Sorry to hear you have to deal with such a difficult person.
August 24th, 2010 at 4:37 am
This helps me. remember you have angered someone at sometime. Learn to tune them out. If you have ever went on visitation you would not wear your feelings on your sleeves
August 24th, 2010 at 4:37 am
Here’s a site that has 15 min audio on different subjects like overcoming anger, bitterness, rejection and so on. I listen to it quite often. The pastor is pretty good.
http://www.doersoftheword.org/audio_bible_school.html#Right