Coping With Difficult People

I understand exactly what you mean. I think we’ve all had issues in our childhood years that we’d like to forget sometimes. Still, what I think always helped me to move beyond those bad times was making the conscious choice and effort to always look forward while remembering the good times. I really believe it’s true that out of every bad situation can be found a good opportunity. Example … you have a best friend who you’re so close with they could be a sibling almost but yet your ability to relate to others in their family isn’t at all the same as with your friend. Then, a terrible tragedy takes place and your best friend is taken from you in an accident and now the only connection you have left is through his remaining family. During the grieving process if you forget that this isn’t about you but about your friends family you soon find yourself closer to them than was ever possible before you lost your best friend. Not just one person, but several, and these become relationships with a special bond that can last a lifetime which would otherwise have never matured this way had it not been for that ‘bad’ thing happening. See my point? This could be applied to so many situations in life and so for me, that’s the way I always dealt with those bad times by remaining optomistic and hopeful for better times in the future.

My memories of my childhood are happy ones!

i find it very difficult to cope with my childhood.because so many bad things happen.

I never have gotten over it. My mother gave me away to the state to keep "HIM", it is something that will always, everyday be in your life. Although…, it can be very hard when it comes to relationships because a-lot of things remind you of it. You are a survivor sweetie. Not a victim! Otherwise… you would not be alive and asking this question. Pray a-lot (no, I am not a religious fanatic)