How do you deal with a person who cribs, complains, always talk about themselves, is short tempered, gets angry and loses control when in anger, turns violent and is also suicidal?
I’ve asked a question about my co-worker recently, but I feel that things are building up again. I try so hard to be friendly with her, she doesn’t give me the time of day. The hard part is eventually, we may have to work pretty closely together. I feel that she is too busy taking offense at my minor personality traits that she doesn’t give me the time of day to get to know my positive qualities. Any ideas that I can do to soften her attitude toward me?
Brandy. That’s exactly what i mean. The good is easy to deal with but it always comes with the bad. I must learn how to deal with the bad.
i live with a friend who has a 20 year old that has anxiety disorder. i have been here a year and find it very difficult to deal with. He doesn’t have a job because he has a hard time dealing with people and only drives to where he is familiar. (2 towns). his mom gives him money for gas, food,(he always eats out, never what we cook. i don’t know if it is good enough for him or he is afraid it’’s not fresh enough), she pays his car pmts (700 per month). when he goes over to his girl friends house he calls his mom to follow him home. he sleeps til 2 comes home at 6 and plays video games til 1am. it is very hard for me living with this kid, but i tell myself it is an illness. i think he is taking advantage of his illness and his mom. she is a wonderful person but cannot say no to him.he does nothing around the house except boss his sister around and i mean nothing, no chores no nothing except play his games. i am seriously thinking of leaving this relationship. this is very hard for me. i have talked to her about him getting some responsibilities and she agrees but nothing is done. i think she figures if she give in to him the less problems for her. any ideas, i am lost.